THERAPY · INDIVIDUALS & COUPLES
Psychosexual Therapy
Psychosexual therapy is specialist support for concerns relating to sexuality, sexual function, intimacy and desire. It’s a space where the full range of human sexuality can be explored without clinical judgment, without shame, and without any topic being off limits.
Whether you’re an individual navigating something privately or a couple working through something together, this is therapy that takes your sexuality seriously.
“Sexuality is one of the most human parts of us — and one of the least we give proper space.”
What is psychosexual therapy?
Psychosexual therapy is a form of talking therapy that focuses specifically on sexuality, sexual function, desire and intimacy. Unlike general counselling, it draws on specialist clinical knowledge about human sexuality including the psychological, relational and physiological dimensions of sexual experience.
Psychosexual therapy isn’t only about sexual function. It encompasses the full breadth of human sexuality: identity, desire, relationships, shame, compulsive behaviours, kink and everything in between. If it relates to your sexuality, it belongs in this space.
Psychosexual therapy is talking therapy. Sessions take place via video call or in person and involve conversation. There is no physical contact, no demonstrations and nothing that would make you uncomfortable in a clinical setting. If you’ve had any uncertainty about what this kind of therapy actually involves, that’s entirely understandable and the answer is simply: we talk.
Psychosexual therapy is for individuals, couples and polycules. You don’t need a diagnosis, a referral or a particular level of distress to come. Some people come with a specific concern they want to address. Others come with a vaguer sense that something in their sexual life isn’t working for them. Both are completely valid starting points.
Where sexual concerns have a physical or medical dimension, psychosexual therapy works alongside medical treatment. If you’re already working with a GP or specialist, therapy can complement that care rather than replace it.
What I can help with
• Sexual anxiety
• Asexuality & intimacy
• Low or absent desire
• Intimacy & emotional connection
• Mismatched desire between partners
• Impact of trauma on intimacy
• Vaginismus & penetration difficulties
• Body image & sexuality
• Erectile difficulties
• Sexuality & neurodivergence
• Delayed, premature or absent orgasm
• Sex & disability or chronic illness
• Painful sex
• Kink, BDSM & sexual shame
• Sexual shame & guilt
• Non-monogamy & relationship structure
• Compulsive sexual behaviours
• Sexuality & religion or culture
• Sexual identity & orientation
• Sexual concerns within relationships
- Low or absent desire
- Erectile difficulties
- Vaginismus & penetration difficulties
- delayed, premature or absent orgasm
- Sexual anxiety
- Compulsive sexual behaviour
- Sexual identity & orientation
- Impact of trauma on intimacy
- Sexual concerns in relationships
- Sex & disability or chronic illness
- Mismatched desire between partners
- Painful sex
- Sexual shame & guilt
- Asexuality & intimacy
- Intimacy & emotional connection
- Body image & sexuality
- Sexuality & neurodivergence
- Kink, BDSM & sexual shame
- Non-monogamy and relationship structure
- Sexuality & religion or culture
*This list is not exhaustive, if you are struggling with something you don’t see mentioned but think we might be a good fit, please do get in touch.
My approach
My approach to psychosexual therapy is pluralistic which means I don’t apply a single fixed model to every person. Instead, I draw on a range of therapeutic approaches depending on what’s most useful for you: your history, your goals and how you best make sense of your own experience.
In practice this might involve exercises to do at home alongside psychoeducation, cognitive approaches to sexual anxiety, mindfulness-based work, or deeper relational and psychodynamic exploration. The mix depends entirely on what’s happening for you.
I practise as a contemporary sexologist, which means my starting point is always non-pathologising. I’m not looking to diagnose or fix, I’m interested in understanding your experience on its own terms, and working with you toward whatever feels more possible, more connected or more like you.
My practice is rooted in anti-oppressive principles. I’m particularly experienced in working with LGBTQ+ clients, neurodivergent people and those from kink and non-monogamous communities.
What to expect
1
Free initial consultation
A 20-minute phone or video call — no obligation, no pressure. A chance to talk through what you’re looking for, ask any questions, and get a sense of whether working together might be a good fit.
2
Assessment session
A fuller first session to explore your history, what’s brought you here and what you’d like to be different. This helps shape how we work together from the start.
3
Ongoing sessions
Regular sessions — usually weekly or fortnightly — each 50 minutes. The pace, focus and direction are led by you. There’s no fixed number of sessions; we review regularly and work for as long as it’s useful.
4
Review & ending
We build in regular reviews to reflect on progress and direction. When the time comes to end, we do so thoughtfully — with enough space to close well.
BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION
A 20-minute initial call — free, no obligation and no pressure. Simply a conversation to see whether this feels like the right fit.
FEES
Initial consultation
Individual session
Couples/polycule
Session length
Free
£70
£90
60 mins
FEES
Initial consultation – FREE
Individual session – £70
Couples/polycule – £90
Session length – 60 mins
Availability
• Currently accepting new clients
• Online — UK-wide & international
• In person — Staffordshire
• Weekly or fortnightly
Ready to take the first step?
Getting in touch is often the hardest part. A free 20-minute consultation costs nothing and commits you to nothing — it’s simply a conversation to see whether working together might help.
