Fees, FAQs & Contact
Everything you need to know before getting in touch — and a way to get in touch when you’re ready.
FEES, PAYMENT & AVAILABILITY
Session fees
All fees are inclusive. Payment by bank transfer or cash.
| Session | Fee | Details |
| Initial consultation | Free | 20 min · phone or video |
| Individual therapy | £70 | 60 min · weekly or fortnightly |
| Couples / polycule session | £90 | 60 min · all structures welcome |
| Young person (13–17) | £70 | 60 min |
| Supervision (during training) | Pay what you can | 60 min · individual |
| Supervision (post qualification) | TBC | 60 min · individual |
| Training & consultancy | Enquire | Varies by project |
Payment
Payment is due at the time of booking. I accept bank transfer.
Cancellation
Sessions cancelled with less than 48 hours notice are charged at the full fee.
Low cost spaces
A small number of low cost spaces are available.
Availability
Please enquire about current availability. When all spaces are full, a waiting list is available for those interested.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Common questions
If something isn’t covered here, get in touch, I’m happy to answer anything before you decide whether to book.
ABOUT THERAPY
I use Microsoft Teams or Signal for online sessions. Both are widely available and free to use as a client. If you have a strong preference for a different platform, get in touch and we can discuss what’s possible. You don’t need an account to join a Teams call as a guest, though having one can make things easier.
Yes, I work online with clients across the UK and internationally. If you are based outside the UK, please get in touch and we can discuss any practical considerations, including time zones and any relevant legal or ethical points for your location.
Previous difficult experiences with therapy are more common than people realise, and they’re worth bringing rather than leaving at the door. If a previous therapist made you feel judged, misunderstood or worse than when you started, that matters and it’s something we can talk about. It also means I’ll want to pay particular attention to whether this feels like the right fit, and I’ll check in with you about that more explicitly than I might otherwise. Your previous experiences inform how we start, not whether we can.
You can refer yourself directly, no GP referral is needed. Get in touch via the contact page, by email or by phone and we’ll take it from there. If you are currently under the care of a GP or mental health team and feel it would be useful for me to liaise with them, that’s something we can discuss, but it’s never a requirement.
It depends on what you’re bringing and what you’d like from the work. Some people find a focused short-term piece of work, six to twelve sessions, gives them what they need. Others work for longer, particularly where there’s more complexity or a desire for deeper exploration. I don’t set a fixed number of sessions at the start; we review regularly and the length of the work is something we decide together as we go.
In everyday use the terms are often used interchangeably, and in practice the distinction matters less than the quality of the therapist and whether the approach suits you. Broadly speaking, counselling tends to focus on specific current concerns, while psychotherapy may involve deeper exploration of patterns, history and underlying dynamics. My training encompasses both, and the work is shaped by what you need rather than by a fixed label.
If you’re wondering whether therapy might help, that wondering is usually enough of a reason to find out. Therapy isn’t only for people in crisis, many people come to work on something specific, to understand themselves better, or simply because something feels off and they’d like more clarity. A free initial consultation is a good way to explore whether it feels like the right fit, without any commitment on either side.
SPECIALITY AREAS
Psychosexual therapy is a form of talking therapy that focuses on sexual concerns, intimacy and relationships. It is entirely talk-based: there is no physical contact, no examination and nothing that would make you uncomfortable in a clinical setting. Sessions take place online or in person and follow the same format as any other therapy session. The ‘psycho’ in psychosexual refers to the psychological and relational dimensions of sexuality, not to anything physical.
No. Many people come to relationships therapy on their own, working on their own patterns, attachment style, communication or history in relationships is a completely valid use of the space. If you do want to come with a partner or partners, that’s equally welcome. Polycules and multi-partner configurations are also welcome. The starting point is whatever makes sense for where you are.
Kink-aware therapy means working with a therapist who already understands kink, BDSM and the communities around them, without treating your lifestyle as a presenting problem, a symptom, or something to be explored for its underlying meaning.
‘Sex addiction’ is a widely used term but it isn’t a clinical diagnosis, and the addiction framework, with its roots in abstinence and moral language, isn’t one I work from. Compulsive sexual behaviour (CSB) is better understood as a pattern that has developed for reasons, often connected to stress, trauma, anxiety or unmet emotional needs, and that can be understood and changed with the right support. The distinction matters because it shapes how the work is approached: not as a moral problem to be corrected, but as a pattern to be understood.
No, I don’t work with the same person as both their therapist and their supervisor. This is a standard ethical boundary in the profession: the two relationships have different purposes, different power dynamics and different confidentiality frameworks, and mixing them would compromise both. If you are interested in both therapy and supervision, we can discuss which would be most useful at this point, or I can suggest someone else for whichever one I’m not providing.
Yes, absolutely. Questioning is a valid place to be, not a problem to be resolved quickly. Whether you’re uncertain about your sexual orientation, your gender identity, your relationship style or something else entirely, therapy is a space to explore that at your own pace, without pressure toward any particular conclusion. You don’t need to have figured anything out before you arrive.
CRISIS SUPPORT
Crisis support
This is not a crisis service, if you are in crisis and in need of support please contact one of the services below or call 999 in an emergency:
If you need urgent support right now
| Samaritans | Free · Any time · 116 123 · samaritans.org |
| Shout | Free crisis text line · Text SHOUT to 85258 |
| Switchboard | LGBTQ+ helpline · 0800 0119 100 · switchboard.lgbt |
| Rape Crisis | 0808 500 2222 · rapecrisis.org.uk |
GET IN TOUCH
Send a message
Getting in touch is often the hardest step. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you reach out.
Other ways to get in touch
Phone
07475 248 517
Leave a message — I'll call back as soon as I can
07475 248 517
Leave a message — I'll call back as soon as I can.
dan@rewritetherapy.co.uk
For general enquiries and referrals
What happens after you get in touch
I'll get back to you by email or phone. For therapy enquiries I'll usually suggest a free 20-minute call so we can have a proper conversation before anything is arranged. Everything you share is treated with complete confidentiality.
