THERAPY · LGBTQ+  INDIVIDUALS & COUPLES

LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy

Finding a therapist who genuinely understands parts of your life can make a real difference. As a queer therapist myself, I bring lived understanding as well as clinical expertise to this work. You won’t need to explain yourself, justify your identity or navigate someone else’s discomfort here.

Whether you’re coming with something directly related to your identity or something entirely unrelated, you will be met as your whole self throughout.

“You shouldn’t have to spend your therapy sessions educating somebody else,. that energy belongs to you and your work”

What is LGBTQ+ affirming therapy?

LGBTQ+ affirming therapy is therapy that recognises, respects and actively supports LGBTQ+ identities, relationships and experiences.

Affirming therapy is not the same as a therapist who says they are ‘open to working with’ LGBTQ+ clients. It means a therapist who is genuinely informed about LGBTQ+ experiences, who doesn’t need the basics explained, and who understands the specific ways that minority stress, discrimination and internalised stigma can shape someone’s mental health and sense of self.

I am actively, and loudly, against the practice of conversion therapy in any form. This means I will never attempt to change, suppress or redirect your sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Nor will I invalidate any of your lived experience. This includes being mindful of conversion therapy that can arise when working with unrecognised or unnamed Asexuality. 

.LGBTQ+ clients come to therapy for the full range of human concerns — anxiety, depression, relationships, sexuality, trauma, grief, work, family. Not everything is about identity, and good affirming therapy doesn’t treat it as though it is. What it does is ensure that your identity is never a source of additional difficulty in the room. That it is understood, respected and simply part of the context, whatever you’ve come to talk about.

What I can help with

• Coming out — at any age or stage

• Minority stress and its impact on mental health

• Identity exploration and questioning

• Religious or cultural conflict around identity

• Gender identity and gender dysphoria

• Family rejection and estrangement

• Trans and non-binary experiences

• LGBTQ+ relationships and relationship structures

• Intersex experiences and identity

• Sexual concerns within LGBTQ+ relationships

• Exploring Asexuality & the aromantic spectrum

• Trauma related to identity or discrimination

• Bisexuality, pansexuality and identity fluidity

• Navigating queer community dynamics

• Internalised homophobia, biphobia or transphobia

• Anxiety, depression and wellbeing

*This list is not exhaustive, if you are struggling with something you don’t see mentioned but think we might be a good fit, please do get in touch. 

My approach

As a queer therapist, I’m able to bring my own experiences of navigating identity, community and some of the shared LGBTQ+ experiences of growing up and experiencing life. That doesn’t mean my experience maps directly onto yours, but it means there are things I understand from the inside, and a quality of presence in the room that reflects that.

My practice is informed by minority stress theory, the understanding that many of the emotional and mental health challenges LGBTQ+ people face are not internal to the individual but are responses to external hostility, discrimination and marginalisation. I’m not looking for the problem in you. I’m interested in the context you’ve been navigating, and what it has cost you.

My work is rooted in anti-oppressive practice, which means actively attending to how power, identity and systemic inequality shape the experiences people bring to therapy. For LGBTQ+ clients, that includes understanding how heteronormativity and cisnormativity operate in the world, in relationships, and sometimes in therapy itself.

Whatever you’ve come to talk about, you will be met as your whole self. Your queerness, your gender, your relationship structure, your community: all of it is welcome, whether we talk about it directly or not.

My approach is person-centred and pluralistic, shaped by what’s most useful for you specifically. Some people want to focus on identity and community. Others want to work on something that has nothing to do with being LGBTQ+, and simply want a space where that’s not an issue. Both are entirely valid, and the work follows your lead.

What to expect

1

Free initial consultation

A 20-minute phone or video call — no obligation, no pressure. A chance to talk through what you’re looking for, ask any questions, and get a sense of whether working together might be a good fit.

2

Assessment session

A fuller first session to explore your history, what’s brought you here and what you’d like to be different. This helps shape how we work together from the start.

3

Ongoing sessions

Regular sessions — usually weekly or fortnightly — each 50 minutes. The pace, focus and direction are led by you. There’s no fixed number of sessions; we review regularly and work for as long as it’s useful.

4

Review & ending

We build in regular reviews to reflect on progress and direction. When the time comes to end, we do so thoughtfully — with enough space to close well.

BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION

A 20-minute initial call — free, no obligation and no pressure. Simply a conversation to see whether this feels like the right fit.

FEES

Initial consultation

Individual session

Couples/polycule

Session length

Free

£70

£90

60 mins

FEES

Initial consultation – FREE

Individual session – £70

Couples/polycule – £90

Session length – 60 mins

Availability

• Currently accepting new clients

• Online — UK-wide & international

• In person — Staffordshire

• Weekly or fortnightly

Ready to take the first step?

Getting in touch is often the hardest part. A free 20-minute consultation costs nothing and commits you to nothing — it’s simply a conversation to see whether working together might help.